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The Untold Ending.

I decided to create this blog with the goal to express my frustrations in regards to Sean’s behaviors, manipulations and the lack of explanation on why he had to betray by hiding who he really was, lying to me, fabricate stories, even created exaggerating reports to the police with the goal to see me dying behind bars.

It all started back in 2015 when for the first 6 months Sean and I didn’t even know our names – we only knew we were having the best sex of our life I ended up falling in love for someone who after 2 years I start to find out who is Sean Cumpian.

I felt in love for someone that never existed.

I was accused daily of being a cheater. I spent pretty much my entire relationship trying to show my boyfriend that he was wrong.

This sick relationship impacted my life in so many ways, financially and emotionally. Sean made sure to involve my family members by calling them, telling things that weren’t truth, threated me saying he was going to share some personal pictures with my kids, seeing my therapy and instead of talking about his issues, he told my therapy enough shit about me that almost made me lose my kids.

One thing Sean used to do a lot with me was borrow money or credit card and making everything possible to delay pay me back or just not paying to provoke me and made me pissed. He knows exactly my weakness and what could make me mad.

In one occasion, I had to take one of the four phones he had as a guarantee he would pay me. I could list several occasions, actually, every single one where Sean did the most he could to not pay me on time or trying not to pay me at all after all I have done to help him such as:

Giving him access to my Amex credit card (my goal was to add his name to my Amex account to help Sean build his credit score and eventually buy his car on his own). In 3 months he spent over $7000 using Amex.

Found a marriage for him, so he could make extra money pay some of his bills or again, help him saving to buy a car.

Guess what, he never was able to save a penny, make me believe I was helping him build a better score while behind my back he was open as much credit card accounts he was able. He also used his mom and his aunt names to open Gas and Electric accounts that again he never paid – hurting not only his bad credit but hurting the reputation of his own mom and aunt.

Knowing his inability to save a penny, after all, Sean knowing how much I still loved him, manipulated me and the idiot here, yes “Me”, ended up leasing a car in his name, my name as a cosign, hoping/believing Sean would do the payments on time. Of course, again, he disappointed me.

He was not able to make his first through 5th payment on time, none.

2017 – Another year and way more surprises from Sean:

Sean knowing I was unemployed with a mortgage to pay, two kids to support, and aware that I asked him to give the Amex $2000 amount ( so I could use to pay my mortgage).

Instead besides wish me to die in jail, he lied about the money. I learned from the Travis Jail, Sean had received the check a while ago and cashed out without my authorization $2000 and claimed, he had to use the money to pay his rental first ( please note by that time, he still had a job, still getting money from his marriage – ” wondering where he spent his own money, that he had to use someone’s else money to pay his rental instead. He lied several times to me about where the money went.

I had to fight for about 7 months to get the money back from him.  During this time, he kept telling me he didn’t have the money to pay me back. I had to borrow from my ex-wife so I could pay my mortgage.

Guess where Sean was spending his salaries, his marriage funds, money he also borrowed from some of his best friends:

  1. Sex with porn stars – see his text exchanged to one of them.
  2. Fancy hotels in LA, Ventura, Oxnard, Camarillo and Santa Maria where he used to fulfill his dick needs away from me.
  3. Drugs, Alcohols, poppers – yes Sean can’t get fucked without his bottles of poppers which cost more than $25 for a small bottle. Imagining how many times he went away spending with hotels so he could do ” his stuff” without the people he owns money the most, couldn’t find out. – Ask Sean to for his Hilton Card Rewards – you will be impressed how much money he spent doing that – while the idiot here struggling and asking my ex-wife to help because Sean could never pay me on time.

See what the man who kept saying he loved and care about me did…

Sex with Porn Start

Phones and more Google Pixels phones besides his Apple phones – which I also found out later he had 2 -a total of 4 phones and several different phone numbers.

From some of what I found out from his phone – was enough to learn how come I could believe in someone who has cheated on me for so long. At this point I don’t care if he cheated on me with another man, but by the fact he hid his escapes to Los Angeles, his stayings in nice hotels, spending in new phones, new computers, getting late to work, telling things about me to some of my friends and family that weren’t even close to the true, including his fiction report to the police in Santa Barbara who arrested me 2 weeks after I tried to take my phone back from Sean back in January. I had to pay another $2500 to bail myself out, while by the same time, Sean took $2000 without my authorization to pay his rental. By that time, he had already done enough damage to my life, especially financially. He had a debt of another 10K that I had to consolidate and hope to have Sean pay his part for the next 40 months

This pic Sean sent to me pretending he was super sick after I had visit night before. On this day, he also went to the bank and cashed out the $ 2000 that he lied to me he hadn’t received.

Wish I knew all this before cosigned his car where he agreed to pay the car on time – Guess what, the first five months, he was not able to pay one time on time. I started to have concerns and after I found out he was taking money from me to pay his rental because for some unknown reason, his salaries, and the money his wife pays him every month wasn’t enough for him to live, neither pay his rent.

Last year Sean really crossed the line by involving my therapist, my ex-wife, her boyfriend, treating me in regards to my kids, tell lies to my friends – all with the goal to fuck me up and put and die in jail – yes he said that….

After all, I became smarter and in order to have him pay me, I had to take some of his stuff – where I just learned more about the man I mistakenly fell in love. His phones and laptop and see what I found out:

He lied to my therapist saying things that weren’t true – I almost lost my kids because of Sean Cumpian

https://photos.app.goo.gl/gfa8gJ9xgrDHhvgK6

Things he told my ex-wife – some of the things were not even close to the truth. He made sure to bug her knowing she was pregnant and didn’t want to be involved on Sean’s drama – My ex-wife boyfriend had to ask Sean to stop texting here. Below is just a couple of things he told her. He also shared our sexual life with my ex, shared some personal sexual fantasies I had and told Sean and lied saying to her, I had drunk a bottle of tequila – someone that I never did in my life.

https://photos.app.goo.gl/rdrZABF7ZxTKY3zL7

I took the decision to take the car from him ( I was on the lease as well). He tells everyone, I stole the car from him. I am so glad, I took the car on time because, in the following months, Sean only got worse with his payments and with his performance at work.
Glad I did because if he got to the point when he could not even pay for this rental, how would he pay for the lease?

Sean did not agree with I did and wanted to fuck up with me again – he involved my ex-wife telling her and telling everyone that I stole the car.

How I stole a car that was in my name? I had valid reasons to take it back. Glad I did, because if he got to the point when he could not even pay for this rental, how would he be paying for the lease? I believe I did a favor for him taking the car back which was extremely dirt, some pieces broken – guess who had to spend more money on the car?

I also found out he owns money not only to me but to several credit card companies that he opened in 2017 while I was letting him use my credit card to help him build credit. He owed money to some of his best friend Kyle Gilbert (updated – Sean no longer owns money to Kyle) , his former co-worker Dan M., his attorney, his dentist and so on ( yes, as off today, he still owns $$$$ to those poor souls.

https://share.icloud.com/photos/0_EPbpGsjZkT0VmNWXRIw4KPg#Credit/Collections_and_People_Sean_owns_

Here another proof of his lack of responsibilities, a $2000 traffic ticket that came in my name but thanks the cam was able to register the driver which was Sean. I told him several times to take care of those tickets. He didn’t and now he needs to pay almost $2000 – Thank God I was able to change the name to his name, otherwise, those tickets below would be my responsibility –

https://share.icloud.com/photos/0c7eB9auZIYYPu9sAnXzu81CQ

Rental place – besides destroying his own place – see insanity videos he did look for drugs or looking to see if I was having sex with his neighbors. Things that he used to accuse me and even tell his friends about.

See who was carrying drugs:

See videos:

https://photos.app.goo.gl/dJD5CfG8ao4J3M517

All I am saying can be proved. While Sean was doing all that, he was accusing me of doing what he did. I felt so betrayed, I felt I was the biggest idiot ever for trying to believe he was a good person

After keep finding out his bullshit, I tried to confront him but he fled from Santa Barbara after been kick out by his landlord because he didn’t pay his rent for the last 3 months, even thou he was getting $800 weekly from his EDD disability plus $500 from his marriage. 

He also has several processes at the courthouse in Santa Barbara and Ventura County. 

He hasn’t taken care of those neither paying his own attorney for his services. 

Sean also robbed $ 25000 from one of his Grindr gay friends back in 2015. Ask him if he paid back his friend Johan Ratz? He didn’t and have no plan to pay him. In case you want to learn more about how he was able to take $25000 in less than a year using Johan’s credit card, you can contact him on Facebook and confirmed what Sean did to him. 

Court Cases – he didn’t pay his rental for 3 months and had to be kicked out

More Court processes from processes from Texas, Santa Barbara, and Ventura County. 

He hasn’t taken care of those neither paying his own attorney for his services. 

Cheating or trying to cheat? Who cares at this point? Sean did exactly what he has accused me while we were in a relationship. see below -talking dirty sex with random virtual hookup “friends”

https://photos.app.goo.gl/c5yvoB1vZW9UuRRq7

Here is how Spunbtm liked to treated. I thought I was doing a good job until I found out he has spent a lot of money Hosting on his own and getting other daddies dick from Los Angeles to Santa Maria. He refused to show the main daddy here his Hilton reward account. Wondering how much dirty he has been hiding while still with me by that time and on top of that spending my money that he stole and in order to get my money back I almost had to sue him. Oh my gosh, how stupid I was believing Sean Cumpian was someone honest someone who I could trust.

https://1drv.ms/v/s!AqL8kX2MFIMmgbN0DGLJ69yw8HWuOQ

Here is how Spunbtm liked to treated. I thought I was doing a good job until I found out he has spent a lot of money Hosting on his own and getting other daddies dick from Los Angeles to Santa Maria. He refused to show the main daddy here his Hilton reward account. Wondering how much dirty he has been hiding while still with me by that time and on top of that spending my money that he stole and in order to get my money back I almost had to sue him. Oh my gosh, how stupid I was believing Sean Cumpian was someone honest someone who I could trust.

Sick one?

It is unbelivable how someone can keep calling me a liar, calling me a sick person just because I want to bring transparency and awareness to some of common sick diseases in this world ( in this case, traces of schizophrenia a clear behavior and some mental disorder of my ex lover).

Schizophrenia is a chronic and severe mental disorder that affects how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. People with schizophrenia may seem like they have lost touch with reality. Although schizophrenia is not as common as other mental disorders, the symptoms can be very disabling.
Because fetal exposure to alcohol may produce brain damage, itself associated with increased vulnerability for schizophrenia, and because chronic exposure to alcohol may lead to a symptomatic schizophrenic illness, prospective study of children with fetal alcohol damage is needed to determine whether they are at greater risk for the later development of schizophrenia – whoever is reading this and knows Sean’s family background might understand better my point.

Who seems to have sick behaviors after:

  • Clearly have constant hallucinations such see the need to lock all the kitchen doors cabinets bc apparently the pans inside those cabinets got life and started talking to each other,
  • Someone who for several times accused unfairly his ex boyfriend of having sex with random people on his house while he was apparently sleeping and recording sounds of someone having sex in his living room. That recording sound was never present to me;
  • Someone who accused his own wife of having an affair with his boyfriend;
  • Someone who had stalked his boyfriend by renting a different car, pretending be someone else just to scare his boyfriend. When I confronted him if was him who rid, he denied and insisted to spend that night with me and protecting me from the stalker who was Sean. Doesn’t this seen to be a sick person?
  • Someone who need to involve his ex boyfriend family members, including his boyfriend’s ex wife, friends, even a police oficer with intrigated stories and lies just with the goal to get his lover in trouble. Is that not sick?
  • Talking about “his lover”, is that normal a person called his ex bf several times to discuss some financial obligations and also to hear his boyfriend’s voice, sent Valentine’s presents and the next day, I mean very late night go on gay apps just to “browsing” for dicks at 6 am, drunk and horny and had again claiming that he wasn’t “looking”. Why someone keep denying the obvious. Isnt that sick?
  • How someone call still don’t recognize his mistakes and continue to fight against his own serious issues. Always creating stories that never existed, manipulating people’s mind with the goal to benefit his “beliefs” for his own benefits and with the obsession to show everyone he is always right, he is always a victim and everything happening around him and around his life was someone else’s fault.

Sick one

It is unbelivable how someone can keep calling me a liar, calling me a sick person just because I want to bring transparency and awareness to some of common sick diseases in this world ( in this case, traces of *schizophrenia* a clear behavior and some mental disorder of my ex lover).

Schizophrenia is a chronic and severe mental disorder that affects how a person thinks, feels, and behaves. People with schizophrenia may seem like they have lost touch with reality. Although schizophrenia is not as common as other mental disorders, the symptoms can be very disabling.
Because fetal exposure to alcohol may produce brain damage, itself associated with increased vulnerability for schizophrenia, and because chronic exposure to alcohol may lead to a symptomatic schizophrenic illness, prospective study of children with fetal alcohol damage is needed to determine whether they are at greater risk for the later development of schizophrenia – whoever is reading this and knows Sean’s family background might understand better my point.

Who seems to have sick behaviors after:

Clearly have constant hallucinations such see the need to lock all the kitchen doors cabinets bc apparently the pans inside those cabinets got life and started talking to each other,
Someone who for several times accused unfairly his ex boyfriend of having sex with random people on his house while he was apparently sleeping and recording sounds of someone having sex in his living room. That recording sound was never present to me;
someone who accused his own wife of having an affair with his boyfriend;
Someone who had stalked his boyfriend by renting a different car, pretending be someone else just to scare his boyfriend. When I confronted him if was him who rid, he denied and insisted to spend that night with me and protecting me from the stalker who was Sean. Doesn’t this seen to be a sick person?
Someone who need to involve his ex boyfriend family members, including his boyfriend’s ex wife, friends, even a police oficer with intrigated stories and lies just with the goal to get his lover in trouble. Is that not sick?
Talking about “his lover”, is that normal a person called his ex bf several times to discuss some financial obligations and also to hear his boyfriend’s voice, sent Valentine’s presents and the next day, I mean very late night go on gay apps just to “browsing” for dicks at 6 am, drunk and horny and had again claiming that he wasn’t “looking”. Why someone keep denying the obvious. Isnt that sick?
How someone call still don’t recognize his mistakes and continue to fight against his own serious issues. Always creating stories that never existed, manipulating people’s mind with the goal to benefit his “beliefs” for his own benefits and with the obsession to show everyone he is always right, he is always a victim and everything happening around him and around his life was someone else’s fault.